Please RSVP no later than 31 August 2024, so we can have an accurate headcount and pass meal choices to the venue.

Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. Please check your invite for your +1.

Please search for your first name and select from the results. If you are a day guest, you'll be asked to provide dietary requirements, choose your starter, main and dessert. You can also help the DJ out with his playlist!

Couples and families must RSVP individually, to allow for meal preferences to be chosen (if you are a day guest). You can RSVP on the behalf of family members or partners by searching for their name. Families and partners are grouped.

You do not need to RSVP for children. We will be in touch with you to discuss the meal options provided by the Upper House.

Our wedding ceremony will be indoors, inside The Upper House's Orangery.

We are having an 'unplugged ceremony' so we would greatly appreciate you leaving the photo snapping to the experts! We would love for you to take photos after the ceremony. There will be a videographer on-site, recording our day.

If you would like to book a room then you can book directly with The Upper House via 01782 373 790 and take advantage of the discounted wedding guest rate as detailed below for any available rooms.

Please note the below rates do require you to prepay for your room, otherwise guests can pay the normal rate on check in.

Wedding Guest bedroom bed & breakfast rate prices are per room, per night:

• Single - £95
• Double - £110
• 3 in a room - £130
• 4 in a room - £150
• Extra z-bed - £25 (over 5yr olds)

Other accommodation options close to the venue:

• Premier Inn - Trentham Gardens (10 min by car)
• Travelodge - Trentham (10 min by car)
• Hilton Garden Inn - Hanley Stoke on Trent (20 min by car)

Formal attire please! For example, gentlemen please wear a suit, shirt and tie.

We recommend that you arrive 45 minutes to 1 hour before the start of the ceremony to ensure we keep to the schedule! Our ceremony is set to begin at 2pm.

Your company on our wedding day is the most important thing to us! If you do wish to celebrate with a gift, a contribution towards our 'henneymoon' fund would be greatly appreciated!

Send a gift (thank you!)